How To Handle Jealous Relatives?


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P3T3R thats was the naughtiest suggestion ever posted :P
anyhow I liked it
but Vaibhav it all depends on you now
as advised by many members it's best to ignore and stay away man
I can understand what you are going through because I have similar cousins like you
I stayed away made my career and converted my weak points into strenghts
now they are the ones running away from me at family gatherings [:D]
 
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nice one from dharmesh as well
try to check which subjects he dislikes or is weak in
study them and go to public gatherings
when he starts off then you start off as well
and politely put forth your queries on the subject matter
and see him running away and avoiding you and next gathering :P
 
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vaibhav, there are many such characters everywhere whether it be family , a college or an office. Just ignore them. Ups and downs in a persons life are just cyclical. When ever such chaps try to irritate you just smile or keep silent or just simply avoid them. "Smile and Silence are companions of a successful man" ! Just think that there one day will come for you also ! For that your determination and hardwork only counts !
 
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silence is the best remedy
and avoiding such people the better
because the more you interact with such people or they try to interact with you
the more negative energy they transfer which is not good
 
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be a man and ignore such things yaar. You have many serious things to do, try not to think in that direction. I know it's difficult to be in your situation but it's you who can help you.
 
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Dear All
Yeah this ignore thing seems to work best. Now last 2 times he himself had to call me to come and sit with him at family gatherings. I did sit with him and he tried to start a conversation but i dont show much interest. Just nodded etc etc. [glasses]
He asked me to come and see his place outside delhi but i said i am happy at my home. I think ignoring him get him down to earth.
He will realise he is not Sachin tendulkar that i need his autograph [lol]
But both he and bhabhi keep bugging me about my marriage. What to reply to that [surprise]
 
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tell them it's your personal decision and your parents will look into it.
i hate when people try poking in on personal matters
i avoid them and that has worked
 
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“Never Play With The Feelings Of Others, Because You May Win The Game But The Risk Is That You Will Surely Lose The Person For Life Time”

William Shakespeare

He and his family lost me forever [clap]. Good for me one person less to worry about
 
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dude i haven't met few of my cousins for over 15 years because of same reason
and it doesn't hurt at all
i moved on and made some good friends
 
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@Vaibhav

Oh, Again you are in a mess of some thing man !! OK it is just simple do this

Whenever you have to meet him where you cannot avoid his meeting, then just keep him busy listening to you man
say
how good is delhi today
wow roads are really nice here
Metro is awesome man
oh look at that dog so nice
see that girl is like aish
hey i feel like walking do you
hey come on we have some drinking water
how many time you have seen sholey
i like amzadkhan very much
did you meet sonia gandhi recently
oh poor rabert vadhera he doesn't know panipuri
do you eat panipuri
oh i like punjab mail so much man
do you like skipping game

ok, then see what happens next[lol]

dont worry man !! just think about yourself nothing else !![:)]
 
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silence is the best remedy
and avoiding such people the better
because the more you interact with such people or they try to interact with you
the more negative energy they transfer which is not good
+ 1 to this

But silence does not work when face to face,better to nod or look at cell phone or something.

Some people need to look at themselves before commenting ,i had an argument some months back where i was targeted,when i got annoyed & responded i was called egoistic
My response was do not confuse a persons self respect with ego
cos when someone cant shut up or realize what they are saying you got to put them in there place.
Guess giving it time & space should let things settle down cos you cant avoid family.
 

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This is a personal topic quite much to an extent. I hope OP has received sufficient answers for his real question. On a concluding note – I would suggest what others said, just ignore it and move on. It might not be as easy as it sounds but it works. Trust me; life is too short to be concerned over such petty things. Do not waste the precious time. You should focus on personal goals and keep working at level best to succeed. Good luck. :smile:

Drive Safe,
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