This will just add up to complications, never try these.
Vishwas sir, sorry for standing against you but I am intact at my point.
These are not the people who hear your words, they understand only one language and they understand it very well too. Okay, you need not to hit the person with your hands, you have legal hands for that.(I can explain it all very well, only via PM if anyone needs such advises)
@Nozzle
Sorry to hear this my friend.
Yes I faced similar situation 2 years back, but tracing the person was not that easy as they keep changing numbers and were with fake ID's, hence I have changed my wife's number and ensured that it is only known to relatives and her friends. If there is a need that if have to give phone number of residence I will give my number. So first thing don't worry and do not get panic and do the following
1. A complaint with cyber crime department of police will help. Lodge a FIR with them and ask them to trace that out, but for that again like vipul said if your wifes number should be a postpaid one so that the operator will keep a track on that number and tell us from where the calls are being received. And I feel at times, if that fellow does a simple mistake of not changing the SIM for long time, then he can be caught. To do all this see that one of your cousin are relative spend their time on this issue and see that they accompany your wife wherever she goes.
BTW, if I'd have been in place of Nozzle sir, then I'd have asked my wife to act like nothing has happened and asked her to take cousins etc on shopping visits etc but not always. I have heard two types of such cases:
- When the person just calls.
- When the person also tracks you.
The second case is which is being talked here and this one is very much complicated too. The person who is disturbing madam is not an-another-guy, instead someone who knows that her husband is out and she lives with her kid, also he knows where she lives and may be knowing a lot more which means he will easily understand that you people have started taking precautions and this will just make him understand that he may get caught. These are psycho people, the person is not like we people, he knows that the lady he is following is a married woman with a child and only either a psycho or an aged psycho is expected to do such acts. Now since he keeps track of when she is going out or not, that means he is keeping an eye on her and hence most important is to be alert when she is alone at home and not to go anywhere taking the car all alone. Rest, if she will act like nothing has happened then it will make him confident to approach her and this is where he can be easily caught.
Second thing is like vipul said change the number and take a postpaid connection and keep the number secret for some time at least till you are back home.
Buy a new number and see if the caller gets this number too, if he gets this number too then that means you need to first of all have a look at your close friends, relatives etc etc.
BTW, if only a 500 Rs SIM can do it all, then you can be happy because this is a very small amount for peace of mind.
I very well understand your feelings being away from home, that was the same situation when I was on extensive travel those days, but believe me don't worry, things will be alright soon !!
These situations are very common for us, in fact for every guy or girl of our age who are committed to someone. I myself have many times got some calls asking me to forget the girl and same way she has changed her number twice in last two years and I myself have met 4-5 guys only because they were stalking her. But yes, there is a difference between the situation of we people and the one mentioned here.
One more thing, first tell your wife to be brave enough and there is no need to get panic if such call comes and no need to speak soft, just ask her to bash that fellow and threaten him saying that police vigilance is already started and he will be caught very soon !! this really works
I won't recommend this at all, he must not know that police vigilance is going on because buying a new SIM is very easy. Instead ask your wife to just ask him not to do such acts etc etc and threaten him saying that when you will be back you will see him etc etc.
BUT IT'S BETTER IF POLICE ETC IS NOT TALKED..if you people wanna catch the person then my buddy your wife herself is the main bridge and hence she is needed to keep her cool and then try to get the person trapped and that also with sweetness.