Luxury, Money, Power, Status & Interests. What career should I choose?
Before starting on the topic, I will like to give a brief background:
When I was 6-7 years old, I asked dad when can I drive a car. He explained me about license and driving rules, and asked which car I like. My reply was Accent or Esteem, and he promised me to gift one when I turn 18. At the same time, he asked me to gift him a Mercedes some day. At that age, I wanted to become an engineer and build a flying car. At this age, I had deep interest in computers and always wanted to learn more of it. I used to ask my mother to teach me more of Microsoft Office, and I had knowledge about Word and Excel comparable to someone in 8th grade.
I used to spent most of my time computing and wanted to learn more every time I learnt something about it. I decided to join NIIT to learn game making when I was in 7th, which I believe were very interesting and enjoyable for me. This was followed by learning C++ in 9th and C# in 10th(wasn't able to attend all classes though).
I had keen interest in science till class 8, when I was 12/13. In ninth, science got split into three different subjects: Biology, Chemistry and Physics, and for an unknown reason I started loosing interest in science. By the time I completed my 10th, I had decided that it was stupid of me to think of a flying car and should choose commerce stream in 11th. Due to lack of interest in science, I passed my 10th with just 7.6CGPA.
Now I'm in commerce, with Maths, Business Studies, Accountancy, English and Economics as my main subjects. Few weeks ago my dad asked me what I have planned for future, and keeping in mind my interest and knowledge about computers, I replied that I want to do BCA after 12th. He told me that I should look at other options, and should look at computers just as an interest or hobby. He told me about IAS, and also that he wanted to become an IAS but due to lack of training he was unable to crack it. Anyways, he is now at a level where most of IAS start. He also said that if not IAS, I should be doing something of "top-level". "Every second person today is a software engineer in Infosys or programmer in TCS, with 1Lakh salary". Business, he said can be another thing to look at, because if its successful, we all know it can mean a lot of money. Although I don't have any pressure from his side on choosing a carrier, I found these points to be quite valid. What's point of being just another common man, when you can either be in most respected job of nation or live luxurious life of a businessman?
And ever since he has spoken to me about this topic, I am completely lost and just think about this in my free time. Some of my views about these:
IAS: Respect. That's the first thing that comes into my mind when I think of it. We all read about people getting harassed by police officers and other similar stories, but hardly any of these can happen to an IAS officer. But
success never comes easy, UPSC exams are most difficult to crack. And the salary one gets is not quite justified for the work one does and tension he goes through. 30k for start and 80k for highest level, other opportunities can offer much better, and with this I won't be able to "gift a Merc" to dad, although I'll be fulfilling his dream of IAS.
(Don't suggest about 'under-the-table' payments. I've seen many people who oppose corruption but suggest it to students looking at careers. That's extreme level of stupidity and ignorance)
Business: Money, luxurious life, and above all,
The Mercedes. I know I'm sounding stupid here, so let me come back to reality. Business requires constant efforts, unlike IAS. But good part is, there is always scope for expansion, development and opportunities and all depends on my capabilities. Somehow I find this better than IAS, because of the luxurious life I can have. But some people say after some time, money does not remain that important and this confuses me. What if I chose this and after 10 years I feel bad for myself?
Computers: This is where all of my interest lies. Programming, designing games, understanding how computer works and trying to improve it. All this gives me happiness. Its like
Farhan Quereshi from
3 Idiots, "Do the thing where your interest lies." But this does not offer respect nor the luxurious life, and (I think at this stage) these can offer me some happiness too. Also, I can choose computers as an hobby and do it in some spare time along with IAS or Business.
I'm sorry for the long post. Its 4553 characters long till here(
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). I want to choose something which I will not regret in future, I don't want to look at that 3-Series, saying to myself, "You could have been in it" and nor do I want to get harassed by some government official thinking "I could have shown him if I was an IAS". Although I have many months for this decision, I believe its the toughest decision of my life.